[Teens Stories] The Argue Why Our Dry Reason Has The #1 Suicide Rate

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Ever since nosotros were young, nosotros were taught to boast close each other yesteryear comparison ourselves to others.

If you lot only autumn a fleck behind compared to others, you lot are stigmatized every bit beingness a loser

 

What’s to a greater extent than is that every bit you lot larn older as well as alive yesteryear your mid-20’s, people process you lot similar a consummate oldie

How tin they process people similar that at that age… they are notwithstanding inwards their youth

 

Our organization totally does all it tin to brand people experience bad close themselves

 

People state that every bit long every bit your province is convenient to alive in, as well as has things similar basic medical insurance going on as well as that you’re rich, you lot volition live living inwards a happy country. But I’m non certain close that. If nosotros compare Korea alongside the average country, our happiness index is much lower. Korea is non a overnice house to alive in.

 

It’s only hell-Joseon.

 

Even if a province doesn’t receive got a lot of conveniences, if their people receive got a salubrious mind, it volition larn a province that’s expert to alive in.

 

It’s for certain that parents request to receive got attention of their children, but every bit shortly every bit they practice something for their kids, they larn called “mom-choong” (T/N: a derogatory term that uses the words mom + põrnikas to pull moms who are overprotective of their ain children, as well as who desire to brag close their kids every bit if they are their possession)

If a mom is seen alongside her kid inwards the streets, everyone glares at her. That’s our country.

If the kid accidentally gets wound as well as start to cry, people some them volition recollect of them every bit a nuisance for beingness therefore loud.

Our province is therefore weird, it acts therefore harsh towards parents.

Of class in that place are bad parents also but…

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남자 |2017.12.20 11:57 신고하기

If you lot don’t attention close people: you’re an outsider (T/N: 아싸/Ah-ssa, which is a diminutive of “outsider”). If you lot human activity also nicely towards people: you’re an slow bast*rd (T/N: 호구새끼/hogu seggi, someone who’s easily deceived as well as naïve). If you lot are also witting close everyone: you lot alive yesteryear getting controlled yesteryear others. If you lot receive got an outgoing as well as shiny personality: you’re an attending seeker. If you lot receive got a tranquillity personality: you’re a worthless/loser bast*rd. If you lot rank 1^st: you’re a scheming bast*rd. If you lot rank last: you’re an idiot bast*rd. If you lot rank inwards the middle: your life is meaningless. Let’s function out of this damn country.

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ㅇㅇ |2017.12.20 07:50 신고하기

We rank showtime inwards those useless ranking such every bit the province who has the most plastic surgery. Our province is e'er trying to demo off to other people. We are e'er comparison ourselves to others every bit if beingness pretty or handsome was a must. And this mentality is the biggest weapon of destruction. Our province doesn’t allow you lot to alive if you lot don’t attention close other people’s gazes. Our insides are already rotten but a lot of people solely desire to larn praised based on their outer appearance. People receive got depression self-esteem therefore they obsess close outer appearances. Most of the people inwards our province receive got depression self-esteem. This is because nosotros compare ourselves to others as well as got compared as well as was nether constant pressure. We e'er purpose “our” when nosotros verbalize close “our country” but I don’t recollect that’s e'er expert because it makes living for “me” as well as “I” difficult. No thing how you lot come across it, I recollect that it makes people happier to alive inwards an individualistic lodge rather than a collective one. Living inwards a “we” lodge is therefore tiring.

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ㅇㅇ |2017.12.20 15:56 신고하기

It’s because of all the loathe towards women that I loathe living inwards Korea… every bit shortly every bit nosotros girls practice something, nosotros larn labeled every bit ‘kimchi-nyeo’ or ‘doenjang-nyeo’ (T/N: materialistic as well as superficial). If nosotros drive, nosotros larn called ‘Kim driver’ (T/N: bad woman individual driver). If nosotros don’t position makeup on, people tell us to doll ourselves up. If nosotros swear, people state that girls shouldn’t purpose words similar that. if nosotros position makeup piece nosotros are minors, people tells us that “young kids shouldn’t live wearing makeup”. If nosotros habiliment curt skirts, they tell us non to habiliment curt stuffs. Almost everyone who’s a victim of sexual harassment are women but Korean men would notwithstanding defend the man. If a adult woman gets a piddling benefit, people start calling out “reverse discrimination”…

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ㅇㅇ |2017.12.20 13:16 신고하기

Why are people agreeing alongside the fact that people larn oldies i time they attain their mid-20’s? They are notwithstanding f*cking young. If you lot were to alive 100 years, that would live barely 20% of your life?? How immature is that? And in that place are therefore many things that you lot receive got yet to experience. I seriously don’t empathize why people process them similar that.

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ㅇㅇ |2017.12.20 08:08 신고하기

I lived inwards Korea for 12 years as well as therefore immigrated to the US. Seriously, I was therefore depressed when I was living inwards Korea. Ever since simple school, I had to remain at the university until9 PM. Attending an English linguistic communication university was the basic as well as it lasted iv hours. My mom wanted me to receive got attention of my trunk therefore she sent me to ballet classes. In Korea, I was forced into taking ballet classes as well as forced to consume alongside restraint therefore when I was inwards my 5^th grade of simple school, I solely weighted 28 kg. As a result, I e'er had to practice checkups for my summit as well as weight as well as the Dr. at our schoolhouse said that I was the i who weighted the to the lowest degree inwards our whole school. For all my v years at my simple school, I only wanted to die. Every fourth dimension I did bad at an exam, my mom would striking me as well as compare me to other people. All my confidence was gone. Our solid had coin therefore my mom was able to contact all the famous instructors as well as every bit shortly every bit in that place was a novel renowned academy, she would ship me there. When I was inwards my 3^rd grade, I got 100% inwards math as well as linguistic communication class. So my parents bought me a Milky Way S3. But I scored 90% inwards the next essay as well as my mom broke my telephone alongside a hammer. Once, I failed therefore bad at an exam. Was it during my 4^th grade? My mom threw a kitchen knife at me as well as told me to die. She said that kids who can’t study don’t deserve to live. At that time, I actually wondered a lot if I should only die. My mom did her master’s flat overseas as well as my dad has a doctorate inwards trouble organization administration. They were therefore smart piece their immature adult woman was a fool, I felt therefore pressured. I seriously idea close suicide a lot during simple school. I did my best, but why are my results non showing?... if in that place were 10 questions as well as that I got ix correct but 1 wrong, my mom was the type of individual to non recollect close the ix questions but to obsess close that 1 query I got wrong. Unless I got 100%, she would never give me compliments. And then, I immigrated to the U.S.A. as well as everything became vivid again. Seriously, the organization inwards Korea whereby students solely alive through studying is the worst.

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