[Teens Stories] Ane Idea That Ane Would Walk The Blossom Path Subsequently Grduating High Schoolhouse ㅜ

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(T/N: inwards Korean didactics system, in addition to similar most countries, kids become straightaway to academy later high school)

I’m inwards my 3^rd year of high schoolhouse in addition to I  simply finished taking my entrance exam

I experience sad for my mom in addition to I experience depressed which is the argue why I’m writing this post

During all my past times half dozen years of middle/high school, I’ve never position on makeup in addition to dieted once.

I only studied. People would oft state that I could arrive into the SKY universities (Seoul National University-Korea University-Yonsei University).

I didn’t fifty-fifty know how to play around, in addition to that’s simply how my life was like.

To hold upward honest, every bit shortly every bit my entrance exams were over, I started to gear upward for the interviews.

It’s almost every bit if my life revolved only closed to the entrance exams.

Last Friday, I was done alongside all my interviews in addition to I in conclusion started to really play closed to starting this Monday.

I hung out alongside my friends, went to the gym, washed my dishes in addition to did laundry at home, did another solid chores in addition to slept early.

I’ve been living similar this for iv days now.

Meanwhile, for the past times iv days, my mom has been telling me to read the news, to become acquire my license, to read books, to become transcend my TOEFL in addition to Chinese certificate, etc… in addition to kept on nagging me non-stop.

At first, of course, I made my ain plans in addition to she was agreement but now, fifty-fifty though I simply balance for a petty bit, she would proceed to nag me endlessly.

And because of this, I exploded inwards rage today.

I told her:

“Until when am I gonna alive similar an infant??

I desire to habiliment makeup, habiliment color lenses in addition to desire to alter my phone.

I’ve already told you lot all of that fifty-fifty earlier my entrance examination but you lot haven’t gotten me whatever of those.

What volition I fifty-fifty waste product away for playing closed to for these past times iv few days?”

I wondered if I went every bit good overboard alongside her,

But I simply couldn’t halt in addition to talked until the end.

And in addition to thus my mom replied

“I was the 1 paying for all your schoolhouse fees upward until at nowadays thus at to the lowest degree direct keep it tiresome instead of raging. And when it comes to paying for the gym in addition to paying for vacations, who practise you lot intend handled that?”

To hold upward honest, everything she said was right.

Just my interviews in addition to schoolhouse books costed us almost 5,000,000 won ( 4.6K USD)

So I told her that I was gonna await for a part-time job

I was thus mad

She said that instead of earning minimum wage, I should simply study…..

I seriously desire to experience a lot of various things

I also desire to habiliment makeup in addition to doll myself up.

I desire to taste life.

Even though it’s only for a bit, side past times side week, I volition already direct keep to become consummate my certificates in addition to start my readings.

She refuses to allow me practise the things I desire fifty-fifty alongside my ain money.

She doesn’t fifty-fifty similar the fact that I was resting for these past times iv days.

Seriously, I experience similar chocking up.

Meanwhile, I practise worry most our family’s fiscal province of affairs in addition to experience sad towards my mom.

But fifty-fifty so, my dad is a director inwards 1 of those big delineate of piece of work concern in addition to my mom is an component worker. So I don’t sympathise why they e'er tell me that nosotros direct keep no coin at home.

My mom doesn’t desire me to brand coin but doesn’t desire to give me allowance.

ㅠㅠㅠ I idea that I would walk the bloom path later my 3^rd year of high school

But I didn’t know that I would goal upward living similar that

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와 |2017.12.15 14:44 신고하기

What’s funny most our country’s parents is that they volition only give to their kids everything that they desire in addition to they uncovering satisfaction inwards bragging most their kids... You improve start doing things your ain ways to brand them realize that what they are doing is wrong. If not, fifty-fifty later you lot become to university, acquire married in addition to volition alive your married life, your parents volition nonetheless desire to command everything.

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멘탈붕괴 |2017.12.15 14:46 신고하기

You idea that it would hold upward the goal later high school…? This is simply the beginning… during the fourth dimension you lot are at school, you lot direct keep to grapple your academics, your credits, your linguistic communication learning skills, your learning speed, the contest closed to you, your circle of friends, your volunteering experience, whether or non you lot become on an telephone substitution program, etc…. but once  you lot acquire inwards the move life, you lot direct keep to worry most your boyfriend, your household, getting married, etc…. 1 time you lot acquire married, you lot direct keep to intend most your grandkids, which kindergarten to ship your kids to, which uncomplicated schoolhouse to ship your kids to, which high schoolhouse in addition to thus forth…. Just similar the Mobius strip,  issues come upward in addition to become similar a cruel circle. There’s no end. That beingness said, you lot should nonetheless endeavour in addition to alive your ain life for once… your parents volition adapt… nosotros direct keep to alter the mentality that parents direct keep full ownership over their kids… if your parents tell you lot “but I raised you lot up…” simply state “I did everything you lot asked me to practise in addition to didn’t practise anything you lot didn’t desire me to practise for the past times xx years, simply allow me practise something I desire for 1 time in addition to acquire out me alone!!”. Kids can’t rest inwards their arms for their whole lives… seriously, although it mightiness wound them for a bit, you lot direct keep to alive your ain life… if you lot e'er obey them, you lot volition goal upward having no state inwards your life at all.

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닐바렛 |2017.12.15 15:00 신고하기

Just buckle your topographic point belt. Hell is welcoming you lot now

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